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For decades, physicians and psychologists have been praising
the tremendous value and importance of touch. Studies have
shown that babies who are not touched will not grow as quickly as
their counterparts who are held regularly. Beyond slow growth,
these babies often have weakened immune systems and are more subject
to illness. Babies, who are profoundly deficient in their need to be
touched, may also suffer severe emotional damage and even violent behavior.
Psychology studies have also shown the devastating impact of not being
touched in experiments with monkeys taken away from their mothers.
If touch deprivation is abusive, then it stands to reason that
abundant touch would be healthy and beneficial. In Jean Liedloff’s
excellent book, “The Continuum Concept,” she discussed how children
of the stone age Yequana Indians, living in a "primitive” community
in the Brazilian jungle, were held constantly when they were young.
As the children grew up, they exhibited no violent behavior. In her
two and one half years with this tribe, she realized that children
willingly obeyed their elders, and that toddlers played peacefully
together without arguing or fighting.
Consider that in contrast to being held constantly, it is still a
common practice for babies to be separated from their mothers after
birth due to medical intervention in maternity wards.
These isolated babies hear nothing but the crying of other newborns.
Away from the arms of their mothers, they cry themselves to sleep.
The question I am raising is what is touch, and what makes it so
important? If touch were merely physical contact, a mechanical
rocker and a moving piece of rabbit fur could substitute for much of a
baby’s touch needs. But I do not believe that the value of touch is
simply physical. I believe that it is much more than just the physics
of being stroked. In my opinion, the true value of touch is the
life-force energy in that touch.
This came more clearly to my awareness this year in regard with the
case of Teddy, a 13-week premature baby. Teddy was the seventh
child born from a woman who has been an alcoholic for 10 years.
He was diagnosed as with severe fetal alcohol syndrome, tested
positive for crack cocaine, and the baby’s doctor said that he
“saw no real hope” for this boy. At the time of his birth,
Teddy could not move any muscles and would lie helplessly as a
tiny limp bag of bones. His eyes were tightly closed and his
mouth didn’t have the muscles to suck from a bottle. He was only
sufficiently developed to be able to swallow. Teddy was so tiny; his
whole hand was smaller than (the foster father) Michael’s thumbnail.
After two days in the hospital, Teddy was released into a foster home
where the adapted father, mother and all five children all knew how to
use Quantum-Touch. Everyone in the house ran energy for Teddy.
(Keep in mind you only need one person to be effective, though it
is more fun with seven.) When Teddy became stronger and could cry
for food in the morning, Michael would pick up the baby and run energy.
Amazingly, Teddy would stop squirming and crying within a few seconds,
and become completely relaxed in Michael’s hands. After receiving
Quantum-Touch, Teddy would sit quietly and wait patiently for his
food formula as it was being prepared. This response is highly
reminiscent of the story of the frightened bunny in chapter one that
flipped over on its back, or of Henri’s highly shelter conscious turtle,
in chapter eleven that would rest for an hour with its head and limbs
outside the shell while being held.
When Teddy got older and it was time for his vaccinations, all the
other children screamed as needles punctured both thighs. Michael
simply put a hand on Teddy’s chest and ran energy. To the surprise of
the nurse, Teddy didn’t need to cry at all. On the third round of
vaccinations six months later, Michael experimented and lifted his
hand off Teddy’s chest after the second inoculation. Teddy immediately
started to turn purple and begin to cry. Michael placed his hand
back on the chest and within a few seconds, Teddy took a big sigh
and became relaxed again.
Michael tells me that when he walks into Teddy’s or startles him, as soon
as Teddy sees his face, he just breaks out and laughs. Today Teddy, or
little “Boo Boo” as he has come to be called is a source of amazement
to his doctor who has proclaimed that he looks like a completely normal baby
and that he can’t believe this is the same baby. Now that Teddy is 10
months old, all developmental indicators are within normal range and age
appropriate. He is at 100% on the developmental grading, is of average
weight for a child his age. There is no trace of addiction or facial
morphology from fetal alcohol syndrome.
In the words of Dr. Norman Shealy, M.D., in a recent conversation,
“I would love to see every premature, sick or addicted baby be
treated with Quantum-Touch.” Perhaps one day that will happen.
I figure that it is only a matter of time.
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